Ladies' Night Out: Clothes Swap TONIGHT!

We hope you ladies will consider joining us tonight, even if it's last minute! AND even if you haven't had a chance to grab your old clothes, come anyways because there will be plenty! Here are the details:

• Where: The Point Church, 2449 76th St. SE, Caledonia, MI 49316
• When: Friday, May 29, 2015. 6:30 pm start arriving, first round of selections at 7:30pm.
• Suggested minimum donation: $10 per person, plus bringing your 10+ items of clothes, accessories, etc. (on hangers if shirts/dresses).
• Bring 10 items of clothing or accessories that you want to get rid of and then you will shop from all the other clothing and accessories that the other women coming bring! 
• The proceeds will be split between our adoption and the adoption that Rachel’s brother Justin and his wife, Shawnna are pursuing!

Here is a picture from the clothes swap we attended in Novemeber 2013 that we LOVED and which sparked the idea of this fundraiser! From left: Me, my sister Jenna, my sister-in-law Shawnna, and my mom Doreen

Breakfast Recap

We had our breakfast fundraiser last Saturday which was a great success! It went well thanks to our awesome family and friends who helped us! Thanks to all of you who came out to support us in this way! We are so blessed by the "village" of people in our lives that are helping us make this dream and call a reality. We had approximately 250 people come and raised a profit of about $4000 from the breakfast and bake sale! Here are just a few pictures of the event.

Breakfast fundraiser tomorrow!

It's tomorrow! Please join us and bring your family and friends! Pancakes, sausage, fruit, coffee, and orange juice will await you. 😊 We also have around 75 baked goods and 30 bags of coffee available for purchase! See you there! ☕

Officially approved!

We received this exciting piece of mail today! We are now officially approved and a waiting family! Thanks to so many of you for your support, encouragement, prayers, and financial donations so far. This is just the beginning of it all and we certainly need your ongoing love and prayers!

Home Study Review

Well we finally met with our caseworker again today to read our 15 page long home study report that he wrote. Wow, it was crazy to read all about ourselves in so much detail! We have been keeping very busy with preparing for the big fundraiser breakfast next week, making our profile book for birth families to look at, and making our online profile for birth families to review. It was so good to read through the home study report today, meet with our awesome case worker, and just take a step back to remember the focus and reason for all this craziness: following God's call and getting ready for the child he brings to our home!

When you think of us, please pray for us! Pray that God will continue to prepare our hearts to welcome this child into our home, and that we will trust and have faith in His perfect timing. It's a bizarre feeling to feel emotionally pregnant without the general idea of an ending in sight, but it's also thrilling! We should be officially approved in the next few weeks and then will be a waiting family!

Growing Puzzle!

I thought it was about time for a puzzle update. So far $730 in donations has built these 146 pieces of our puzzle! Thank you again to all of you who have supported us so far! We cannot begin to express how grateful we are for your support. Please continue to pray for us whenever you think of us; we sure need your prayers! Please also spread the word about our adoption to anyone you wish and encourage them to visit this blog and read about our family. We're excited to continue to watch the puzzle grow. :)

Growing our family.... through adoption!

We are excited to announce that we are in the process of adopting our 3rd child! God has been gradually and persistently revealing to our hearts the need to care for orphans and vulnerable children. Through much wrestling, talking, tears, prayers, resisting, seeking, and finally

submitting and surrendering, we have decided to take a step of faith and obedience to pursue

adoption as the next step in growing our family. It is not a decision we take lightly, but one that

we are excited to pursue because we have total peace and confidence that God has called us to do

this.

As we researched the various options (international, domestic, foster care), it became clear to us

that we were to stay local. While we strongly considered foster care, we weren't at peace with

entering into that at this point in our lives. Yet we kept hearing that we were to do something now, not later, as it is so easy to say. So in early January, we decided to pursue domestic infant adoption through Bethany Christian Services and sent in the initial paperwork. We have gone through our home study process over the past few months (interviews, physicals, fingerprinting, etc.) and are currently awaiting our final home study approval. Our case worker has given us the unofficial “you will be approved” for which we are excited! We should officially be a waiting family sometime in May.

Once we are a waiting family, we will be on a list of families that a birth mother can choose from

to be matched with for potential placement of her child. It could be days or it could be years

after approval until we have a child in our home. Once a birth mother chooses us, we will begin a

relationship with her and take part in the anticipated adoption plan. The birth mother could

change her mind before, during, or after the birth of the child. There is usually an ongoing open

relationship with the birth family in this type of adoption. We are ready to be as hospitable as

possible throughout this process. Once the child is born, we will likely take him or her home from

the hospital with us. The adoption would not be finalized until up to 3 months after birth.

We believe in the sanctity of life and support a birth mother choosing life for her child instead of

abortion, even if she does not think she can raise her child herself. What a powerful act of

courageous, sacrificial love to birth her child and give the gift of life in an inconvenient,

unexpected situation!

Jesus said, "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and

follow me" (Matthew 16:24). We’ve realized that for us at this time, this means we are to follow

the call to adopt. Despite the uncertainties ahead, we are ready to be available with open hands

and open hearts to provide a home and a family for this child and to partner with the birth mom

in her decision of choosing life when she didn't have to. 

Please explore our blog to find out answers to some FAQs, learn more about our family, the timeline, and the fundraising that we are doing to help cover the costs of our adoption. We plan to keep this blog updated as we go through the process!